Boyfriend issues pls help?

I don't think he will wake up. I know these are hard times and most good men who have a good woman to support them will go and get any job to put food on the table until they either get rehired at the job they were fired from or until they find a better position somewhere else. Get out of this relationship. You sound like a smart woman do not settle for less. Our father of mother above is trying to tell you something. Why should you work hard and have problems and he not be there for you. I like the fact that you let him stay with you and your mom. That was thoughtful to help him out. But do you really want him to use you and your mother? I don't think you do. And i believe one day you mamma gonna wake up and say, "To hell with this hobo, if he don't get out my house, some body got get buried six feet below zero!"..lol.. Also, have him sign a contract stating that he said he will pay you and your mother back and all the things you both are doing for him. Also, have it notarized with each of your signatures on it. Make a copy and mail the copy or two and put them up for safety. Every time you help him in anyway make sure you have it written, signed by all parties involved, and notarized. Good Luck.